It was during a sleepless night that I started to physically write this article on a notebook using a pen from my stationary tub. It was so unintentional, yet this article is about something which everyone gets to have, and yet, everyone does not have enough of it.
Yes. That commodity is Time.
Time is something which everyone has, but at the same time, everyone do not have enough to use. How often do you hear people complaining about having not enough time to do their job, or not having enough time to play? Well, I hear them all the time. They came from people of different shape and sizes from the very rich that I know of personally, to the very poor whom I met on the streets.
How many of us have the luxury of sitting down at a coffee table, watching everyone rushing by, without a care in the world? Well, I did that once with a group of my friends. We sat in a Starbuck’s outlet for half a day, doing nothing other than to look at girls passing by the windows, and talking about whatever that came to our mind. Then again, it ended when dinner time came around and all of us had to return to our nests.
So, what did we get out of the visit? Not much, except for some caffeine in our blood stream. The images of the girls that went passed us were forgotten within 10 seconds and I did not think that our life span had increased any longer by looking at the demure ladies walking pass the joint.
So, why do some people like to sit around and do nothing the whole day, knowing that they are wasting the most precious commodity they have?
I don’t know. Maybe they just want to relax. Maybe they just want to enjoy life for a moment. Or maybe, they are just trying to forget that they have to spend a whole day’s pay on the plate of Grilled Chicken with Chips that they are enjoying so much.
Wait a minute, what had I just wrote? A single meal at the cost of a day’s pay? Who would spend a day’s hard work on a single meal? Who would be so stupid to do that?
I don’t know. But I see them around me all the time. Instead of spending within their means, many people that I known of are actually enjoying the strange pattern of spending an hour in a posh restaurant, while spending another hundred hours working for that hour spent in that restaurant.
Hey, isn’t that a bit strange then? Why are people sacrificing so much for just a meal? Why can’t they just have their meal at a normal neighborhood eatery? Isn’t is painful to pay for something which you can only enjoy for a brief moment, only to find yourself trying to pay for it at the end of the month with another month’s hard work?
Err, yes. To me, to pay for a meal worth my day’s work is already very heart breaking for me. But then again, if I am to have a meal like a millionaire, I will have to exchange a month’s pay for it, simply because I have no choice.
And most of the working middle class have no choice either. Either they enjoy their meal in a neighborhood eatery, or they slave away in a posh hotel. There is no other way for a working middle class to enjoy the luxury of a millionaire other than to work really hard for it. And some times, these working middle class had to spend a whole life’s savings just to fulfill their one dream in life, which in the end, may be over in a couple of minutes.
There you see, it is very easy to just live within your means. It is really easy for a middle working class to have a meal in their neighborhood eatery, and enjoy the thrill of killing houseflies with their utensils. However, it is really hard, and painful, for a working middle class to pay for a meal which is equivalent to their whole month’s pay.
The same can be said for a millionaire.
They will find it really hard to eat in a neighborhood’s eatery, since it is really painful to have no one to serve you during a meal. However, they will find it really easy to grab a meal in a posh restaurant since there will be less people queuing up to get in.
But hold on for a minute. There is a difference between the two. If you haven’t see it, let me just rephrase the comparison which I had made between a middle class and a millionaire.
First, a middle class will find it easy for their pocket to eat in a normal neighborhood eatery. They can choose to frequent the eatery. The millionaire, on the other hand, has the ability to CHOOSE not to eat at the cheap eatery, simply because he prefers not to eat at that eatery.
Second, a middle class can choose not to break their wallet by choosing the cheapest item on the menu. The millionaire, on the other hand, can choose not to break their back by choosing another restaurant with a nicer chair.
Hmmm. Those two items are not really fair comparisons, aren’t they?
Well, if you compare the choices that the wealthy have, as compared to a poor, there isn’t much to compare, isn’t it?
First of all, you will find that the rich have more options when it comes to paying a certain item, let’s say, a car. While many people would be happy with something that has four wheels and an engine, in order to get a car with more sparkle, they will often have to resort to paying for the car using some form of hire purchase scheme. What about the rich? Well, they can choose to pay by using hire purchase options too. But they can also choose to use credit or cash, in a single payment, since it doesn’t make sense to pay the interests incurred when you use the hire purchase option.
Next, the rich can choose to buy from different version of an item, but the poor are usually limited to one or two version of an item. Take from example, a computer ridge.
For the poor, it may be as simple as “something which I can surf the internet with”. Bare minimum, built in graphics card, built in sound, a 2nd hand CRT monitor, OEM keyboard, mouse and speaker.
For the millionaire, a LCD is a must. It is always preferable to get a IMac which produces files which normal PCs cannot read from. The speakers cannot be too ugly, and keyboard and mouse had to look cool.
Then again, the millionaire can also order a PC with built-in graphic and sound, one that “allows one to surf the web” easily, from a few mouse click, directly from Dell.
So, you see, the Rich do have more choices. They have more choices since they are able to choose what kind of commodity to use to trade for what they want to purchase. They are even able to choose what kind of credit card they want to use, simply because they can.
The poor, unfortunately, can only trade for commodities they want, using the single, most precious commodity they have, that is time.
For a posh meal in a restaurant, they have to serve their masters for some time before they can gather enough money to pay for their bills. They do not have many other choices in footing their bills than to use their time.
Wait, doesn’t everyone foot their bills with money? Why am I talking about time? Am I mumbling rubbish in this article as well?
Well, let us look at how money appears in the bank accounts of most people of this world.
First, they work for 8 to 14 hours a day. Then, they make sure that their hours are written down properly in a book at the finance department. At pay day, they queue up to receive their pay check, or rush to the bank to check whether the amount credited is correct or not. Next, they will then check their mail boxes for bills and….
Wait… let’s not go there. We are supposed to talk about how money gets into the pockets of a normal person, not how it flows out of it.
Ok. So, what about a rich person? How do money flows into their pockets?
Errr, ok, since there is a lot of ways a money can go into a rich person’s pocket, let us just take the life of a rich person who owns a rental apartment, Robert Kiyosaki’s favourite.
First, they… err, do other things… maybe, they do their day job. Then, they make sure that people who own them money, pays them on time, including their employees and those who rented their flats. At pay day, they also check their bank account or the check they receive to see whether everything is in order. Then, they cash in their checks or just see the figures appear in their bank balances. Next, they check their mailboxes for bills…. And we shall stop here again.
So, there is no difference between a rich man’s means of getting money, and a poor man’s way of getting money? Right?
Ok. Scroll up a bit. Read those lines again. THERE IS A DIFFERENCE.
That particular kind of rich person that I had mentioned may have a day job, but, he still receives income from the apartment they rent out. Therefore, any income received from their rental apartment is extra income, which that particular rich person does not need for survival.
On the other hand, whatever money that a poor person, or a middle working class makes during their day job, may become whatever they need for survival, assuming that they do not have other forms of income.
So, the words, “Time is money”, is true.
However, the amount of money that particular time can generate varies from person to person, depending on how much work, what kind of work, and the amount of money generating ways they have on hand.
Then again, money can buy time, to a certain extend. Although it cannot help a person to buy back the time that was lost, they can allow a person to buy more time in the future.
Take for example, a rich person who owns a car, as compared to a person who relied on the public transport system to get around.
Getting from point A to point B, for a person who relies on the public transport system, is usually a pain.
For a train station, he or she had to buy the ticket at the ticketing machine before getting to the automatic gates if he or she does not have a seasonal pass. After getting through the gate, he or she may have to compact themselves into tiny packages, since the train will be very packed during peak hours (Think of the trains in Tokyo during peak hours). Trying to reach for the mp3 player in the pocket might be impossible, as the person next to you may be just, well, right next to your skin. When the train reached the destination, he or she will have to squeeze their way out of the train, the same way they had squeezed into the train earlier. He or she will then walk to the final destination, assuming that the place he or she heading to is within walking distance from the subway.
Similarly, getting from point A to point B, for a person who owns a luxury car, is also a pain.
First, he or she has to make sure that the car has enough fuel to last the trip. If not, he or she will have to stop at the nearest gas station to top up before the trip. He or she may have to stop at other gas stations along the way to the destination, if the destination is really far. Along the way, the driver has to make sure that he does not scratch his or her shiny car, since it will be a hassle to get it repainted. If there is a traffic jam, the driver will then have to crawl along with the slow moving traffic, listening to the songs he or she had downloaded into the iPhone sitting on top of the dashboard. When the destination appears on the GPS screen, he or she will have to find a parking lot as close as possible to the destination, since the parking lot at the destination itself may be full, due to the fact that everyone drives a car.
So, who really spent more time for transport, well, it actually depends on how efficient the transportation system in your neighbor is. If the place you work and the place you live in are right next to a subway, I will say that you will probably save a lot more time than a person who drives. Then again, how many companies are built within 50 meters from the subway? Well, assuming that buildings are actually in blocks of 20m x 20m, I would say that about 24 buildings can be built within the vicinity of the subway.
Wow. That is a lot of buildings, isn’t it? But in my country, the buildings that are actually within 50 meters from the subway is usually 5 or 6, as buildings are not always square, and each company’s ability to buy a piece of land is usually different. Oh, and an area of 20m x 20m is actually very small for Multinational Corporation. Even their employee’s office area is not that miniature.
Then again, it just so happens that it will be faster for me to travel by public transport to work during peak hours, since the roads that I will be travelling on has bus lanes (lanes on the road made especially for buses). Then again, during off peak hours, it will always be a pain to travel by bus. Buses in my area is especially slow and less frequent, as compared to the frequency during peak hours.
Another comparison on how convenient a car can be is, getting from my friend’s house which is 60km from the map takes 1 hour at least by train, while by car, it only takes 10 minutes.
So, if I had a car, and want to get to my friend’s house, I would have saved 50 minutes. That amount of time will be enough for me to do a workout, or leveled up my characters in World of Warcraft.
Then again, 50 minutes alone is enough to clinch a deal, or come out with the next killer idea which can make a 12 years old the next billionaire.
And that is the difference between a rich person and a poor person.
A person who has enough options will be able to choose between the commodity they have to exchange for an item, let’s say, for a house. They will then be able to generate more money with the time they saved. If done correctly, this cycle will never be broken, and that is why everyone is complaining that “the rich always gets richer”, since the rich have the access of money generating machines that the poor do not have.
Then again, it is not impossible to break out of the life cycle of the poor. The moment an effort is made to break the poor person’s cycle, the lives of that particular person who wish to break out of the rat will never be the same again. In order to break out of the life cycle of the poor, one must be able to use their time wisely so that they can produce more “options” for “trading”, instead of being limited to using “time” to trade with other commodities.
Then again, you may ask, if time is such an expensive commodity that we have, why can’t we just keep exchanging time for other commodities, rather than wasting time on other things which may not guarantee us a steady stream of income?
Well, let us just say that, not everyone may have enough time.
Take for example, an old man who can no longer work, since he has a pair of weak legs. Or a person who had recently been told by the doctor that he has only 3 months to live, due to a huge tumor in his or her brain.
Arh… Then you will say to me, “these things will never happen to me, since I am so healthy”.
Correct. You are very healthy now. But what about tomorrow? Have you been going for a health checkup recently? Have you been exercising enough? Have you been eating well? Have you been eating junk instead?
Arh, you will then say to me, “I feel healthy. There is no need for me to get a checkup.”
Well, my healthy looking aunty was diagnosed with lung cancer a month ago.
Arh, you will then say to me again, “It may have happened to your aunt, but not to me. I am very lucky”.
So, do you know what is flowing in your blood? I do not know what is flowing in mine either, since I am not a specialist. So, I rather let a specialist tell me whether the things that are flowing in my bloodstreams are poisonous or not.
Another friend of mine, who had an accident out of nowhere, can no longer live like a person. Everyday, he lives in fear, wondering when he will take a fall again, breaking his spine once again.
Being brought back from death 5 years ago, much of his spine are covered in metallic plates, holding whatever bones that was left together. Hardly a day went by without him wondering when he will die. Occasionally, I will receive his message, saying that he is afraid of dying. And as always, I, a person who had never tasted death before, can never give him many advices, since I do not really know what is going through his minds. Instead of forcing down wisdom which I think that will be useful to him, I rather avoid sending him the wrong message, since I am about the handful of friends he trusted.
I had not tasted death, nor do I plan to taste is so early in life. In fact, if given a chance, I would rather not taste it at all. I personally believed that you as long as you are alive, you can make a difference in this world, like what I am trying to do now, writing my thoughts and others into an article, hoping that there will be some who will be able to see this blog someday, and take away something from this blog.
To this friend of mine, I cannot offer him much advice from someone who knows about death. All I can offer to him are knowledge which I had exchanged with my time, and hope that they will be useful to him when he need them.
Then again, he had lost a lot of time with that fall of his.
Under normal circumstances, he would have lived to a rip age of 70. He would have graduated by age 25, just as I did, with a Honors Degree in Chemical Science. He would then get a girlfriend and get married before the age of 30 years old. He will then have a few children and continue to raise them over the next 20 years or so. His son will then enter the work force as he had, and gotten married when the time comes, just as he had 30 years ago. My friend would have grown old, just as I will be, and we would meet occasionally to talk about our lives, or the daily news.
But, on that fateful day 5 years ago, my friend took that fall.
And therefore, his time stopped for a while.
After he recovered, his time was shortened. Instead of taking 3 years to complete his degree, he now have to spend 6 full years to finish them. Instead of taking Chemical Science as he had wished for, he can only take an Arts and Social Science degree, even though it is not a lesser degree. Unable to stay outside in the open for long, he is unable to take more than 4 modules per semester. His per-day schedule cannot be more than 4 straight hours, as he will need some outpatient medical attention after 4 or 5 hours. With that, there are certain modules he cannot take, as he would have to be in the school for long hours.
As for the getting married part, it is quite impossible for now.
He became a hermit, unable to talk to anyone, since he can no longer hang out with anyone anymore. He locked himself in his room, playing Massive Multi Player Online Game every day. Unable to be in the open for too long, he cannot join his teammates for projects, and had to do them remotely from home, through the MSN.
And so, his time had been shortened for a lot, maybe he will be able to life till a ripe age of 70. Maybe he won’t.
So, you might be thinking, hey, my friend is unlucky. It does not concern you at all. You will never be that unlucky to fall down.
Okay. So, my friend who took a fall at a young age of 19 years old has nothing to do with you. But the fact is, no one expected it.
So, if you have the ability tell me now that who will have an accident tomorrow, I will gladly be your slave for half of my life, since I will know when I will die.
Since no one can actually foresee the future, rather than depending on one’s’ luck, I would suggest everyone reading this article to be as prepared as possible for whatever situation that might happen to you.
Oh, so, you might be thinking that you have a job now. You will be getting your pay raise next month. Your dream wedding will happen next year, with three thousand guests attending your wedding at a well-known cathedral. With the pay raise next month, you will be getting a brand new SUV, amidst the oil crisis that is happening during the time of writing, as you can afford it.
So, nothing bad will happen to you, right?
You life is all well, carefully planned, isn’t it? Nothing will go wrong for you in the next 10 years, isn’t it?
What if you are the next person to take that fall?
What if you are the next person whose office takes a plan hit?
What if you are the next person who just happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time?
What if you just got unlucky tomorrow?
It will only take one fall to be in my friend’s state.
Sad to say, many of us, who thinks that time will always be on our side. We will always fail to use our time wisely until it is too late.
How many times have you heard from those who do not have time left lamenting about the things which they should have done, but did not do?
Take for example, another friend of mine.
At the age of 21, he had USD$350,000 stashed in an overseas bank, earning interest. By the time he is 25, it would had become half a million.
The time which I used for playing online computer games, he was there with me. The time I spent playing offline games, he was negotiating deals. The time I spend going out with friends, he was selling his merchandise and earning 100% profits for his transactions. While I was walking around searching for figurines to buy, he was searching for figurines to sell. While I was watching the movies showed during Christmas, he was making $120,000 in profits, something which is about 4 years of my pay.
What does all these means? Well, this means that, in terms of financial well being , my friend, who is 4 years younger than I am, is more than 10 years ahead of me. He had saved enough for himself such that if he was to get married immediately, he would have enough to hold a wedding and buy a house, all at the same, all with hard cash.
What about me? Well, let us just say that I got enough for the photo shoot.
That also means that if something was to happen to me, I would probably wish that I was dead instead of being bed ridden all my life. Without enough money in the bank as an emergency measure, it would be a problem if I would lose my job now, and if I needed medical attention, I would probably wish that I would be in the coffin, after all, a last service will only cost about $10k for an average person.
Then again, giving up is not an option. It is very easy to give up and let life knock you around. It is very easy to just jump off a building and leave everything else to those that are left behind. It is very easy to not to make an effort to win in games, since it requires no hard work, no sweat, and no blood. It is really, really easy to tell myself that no one will read this blog, and that I should use my time more wisely on other pleasures, like play another round of MMO or to walk around the town without doing anything useful.
It is just simply too easy to quit working hard.
Then again, unless you ancestors had been working hard, or are very lucky, the only way to earn a living is either through hard work, or with a lot of brains. Many people are enjoying their lives because someone had exchange their time for the wealth they are enjoying now. To many, the lives of the rich are just too easy. But what many of us do not see is that fact that the lives of rich and wealthy are easy because they have a lot of options to spend, and also a lot of options to make more money.
And some of these options, like buying a bunch of stocks, a huge rental apartment, or having enough capital to start another business, are mostly out of the reach of most people living in this world.
Then again, these options do come with a heavy price tag. And sometimes, the price is so great that within a lifetime, one cannot hope to have these options.
Therefore, do not waste your time anymore. The time that we are in now will not wait for anyone. Once it is over, it will be over. Once you lost the time you hold, you will lose it forever. You can buy some time for yourself in the future, but you cannot buy back the time that was lost, forever.
The time that you hold now may have gave you little to spend, but if it was used with care, that amount of time you had used in the past may allow you to have more options than you ever thought possible. Without any cash, one can still use their brains and time to create wealth. But if you have already lost time and brain power, money will be you next best bet in generating a sustainable income to feed you, and those that will inherit your genes.
So, for goodness sake, do not waste your time anymore. For you and I do not know what will happen tomorrow. No one expected that a plane will fly into the office they worked in, and many others did not think seeing a plane flying into a building is possible. With each passing moment, future millionaires are being born, and many business plans are being thought of. These future millionaires will never wait for anyone, since they already know that the time they have is limited.
So, please, waste your time no more, and act now. Since it will probably be a miracle for you to find this blog within this mess World Wide Web, it should not hurt you to take something back with you today as you have already spent some time reading this blog.
Remember, you may not be successful even if you try your hardest. But you will certainly not achieve anything if you stay idle and not move at all.